Baby Update ~ 32 Weeks

It's hard to believe I am 32 weeks along today and that I am at the point where I'll be going to the doctor every 2 weeks! I don't know where the time has gone, although I think it has a lot to do with me chasing around a very active little boy this time around. I was telling Tom it's interesting how different my pregnancies have been. Thankfully, with this baby I haven't had as much heartburn, and I am carrying so differently. With Tennyson I gained a lot more weight and it was all over, but with baby #2 I just have a "ball" out in front. And my cravings are totally different than what I had with Tennyson. It's mostly been fruits and veggies with this baby. I guess it proves you can't assume you are carrying a certain gender when you can have 2 of the same and your pregnancies be completely different. (Besides I've heard that from just about every mom I know.)

Mentally I am preparing myself for this little guy's arrival in 4 weeks since Tennyson came at 35 weeks and 5 days. (Which means, of course, that'll I'll go to 39 weeks. Haha!) But it would be so great if he were born early, so long as he's healthy, because I am due the very first day of school, August 24th. Can you believe it?! What timing! It was great having Tom home for 3 weeks after Tennyson was born, so we're hoping for the same with this baby.

In other developments I have been having a horrible time getting to sleep and staying asleep the past few weeks. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem to correlate with whether I take a nap or not, but a lot of time I have trouble falling back asleep (after one of my many trips to the bathroom) because Baby Boy is doing sumersaults and kung-fu in my belly ! I tell you what, if he's this active outside the womb we're going to have one crazy, fun household! The past few days he's been turning over and rolling from side-to-side in there, and I have to say, it gets a little uncomfortable. But I am thankful I have plenty of room in there and don't have the shortness of breath or feet in the ribs that most other pregnant women have. There's something good about being 6 feet tall, huh?

So that's the update on Baby Boy Bates for now. I go to the doctor tomorrow for my 32 week check-up. Should be pretty routine: weight, blood pressure, belly measurement, heartbeat check, and Q&As. Of course the best part is hearing his heart beating. *sigh* Such a sweet sound.

Tennyson's Sense of Humor

We love that Tennyson is starting to say funny things! He and I were playing with his big dump truck in the kitchen a few weeks ago and every time it would run into a cabinet or chair I'd say, with great exaggeration, "Oh man!" Well, our little parrot now repeats that if we say it! It's so funny! Here are two other stories from the past few days:

Tennyson got the bottle of......um......personal lubricant out of the bedside table and brought it to Tom and I saying, "Bubbles! Bubbles!" Yes, sweet boy, that's exactly what that is. *wink*

On Sunday Tom and Tennyson were playing hide-n-seek upstairs, and Tennyson's standard hiding place was our shower. Not expecting a response Tom said, "Is Tennyson in the closet?" And this little voice comes out of the shower saying, "Nooooooo." Oh my, we were laughing so hard we had tears in our eyes! Once Tom composed himself he then said, "Is Tennyson in the shower?" And he got a quick response: "Yea!"

I guess he needs to work on his hide-n-seek skills?

Leaps and Bounds

Well, as usual I am a little behind in keeping you all up to date on all the happenings with our little man. I could just sum it up and say we are amazed on a daily basis about what Tennyson can say and do. I say he is in the "parrot stage" where he's starting to repeat everything he hears. It's so great to be able to have conversations with him now, and it makes life so much easier (for the most part) that he can ask for what he wants.

Tennyson counts everything and gets so excited when he sees a number. He is constantly naming (correctly, I might add) the colors on objects, and he loves to read any and all $alphabet books. We are proud to say that at only 22 months old he unequivocally knows some of his letters: G, M, O, P, T, X, and Z. He sometimes gets the other letters right but at least he's already showing an interest in reading by himself.

Within the past few weeks he has started doing laps from the back door to the front door. As he runs he moves his left arm forward and backward, for momentum I guess, as he says "fast" and "racing." Of course, we assure him he's the fastest boy in the whole wide world. ;-)

And don't think I've ever mentioned on my blog about his favorite comfort item. It's the soft, fuzzy blanket that matches his green, white, and brown nursery and it has elephants on it. Well, Tennyson calls elephants "mitts", so that's what his blanket is now known as - his mitt. I love it!

No one else but Tom and I probably care what new words he has now added to his vocabulary, but I am putting them in this post for documenting purposes: pillow, banana ("mana"), drum, hair, people, ear, cheek, mouth, smoke, rice, cereal, bridge, pig, rabbit, away, run, stay, racing, sausage, and bacon. (The last two words are mostly because he "helps" Daddy eat his breakfast in the mornings.)

Here are some random pictures from the past few weeks. I haven't been as diligent as I should be about taking photos of him, but it's difficult when you can't move and bend like you used to.

I think this shirt says it all!

He looks slightly annoyed that I was taking his picture while he was stacking blocks.

He had some crazy hair after his nap

Tennyson was eating a warm chocolate chip cookie and therefore had chocolate on his hands. I told him to keep his hands up so as not to get it on his pajamas. So after every bite he'd raise his hands. Hilarious!!

What a cheesy smile!

Showing Mommy how he can count (he was saying "two" here)

Eating popcorn ("pop pop") and watching "Toy Story."

We have been having some frustration with him lately in that he's starting to throw tantrums when he doesn't get his way or is told "no." Yeah um, I really thought girls were the only ones that expressed their feelings like that! Grrrr. So we are trying our best to break him of it before we (and by "we" I mean "I") lose my mind. *wink*

There's no denying Tennyson has a mind of his own. He's no follower and he has a strong will. It helps me to know how to pray for him, that God will use his leadership abilities and his mind to serve him.

I've Been Tagged...

...by Kristen D. to share 7 personality traits about myself. I agree that these are not best described as personality traits, but rather things about myself that make me.....ME. Enjoy!

1) I can not stand to wear wet clothes, especially socks. If there is even a drop on them....they get changed as soon as possible. I'm not kidding.

2) I am a little OCD about certain things. For example, whenever I eat gummy bears I have to eat a pink one and a white one last. It's weird, I know.

3) There are many pet peeves I have (I probably need prayer for it or something), but here are a few: people driving below the speed limit in the left lane, people talking on their cell phone as the stroll through Wal-Mart like it's an amusement park, and people who don't use their turn signals.

4) I am an introvert, and I get uncomfortable in large groups of people.

5) I really don't like to travel. A short trip now and then out of town is okay, but otherwise I'd rather be home than anywhere else.

6) My least favorite personality trait in someone else is self-centeredness. You know, when you're trying to talk to someone and all they ever want to talk about is themselves. Yeah, can't stand that.

7) I am really good at procrastinating on certain things. Sometimes it may seem I am procrastinating, when in fact I forgot to write down what it was I needed to do and subsequently forgot. My short-term memory is not so great.

So there you have it, 7 things about me you probably didn't know. And if you did, well I am impressed!

A Little Time to Steal Away

Well, I had decided a couple weeks ago that I needed my toes to look nice for our anniversary. (Like we women need an excusse to go to the spa!) I had a gift certificate and some birthday money, so I went and had a wonderful, relaxing pedicure at the Beauty Spa before Tom and I left for our little get away on Friday.

This is the best photo I could get (because I can't actually SEE my feet anymore), but I love my watermelon-colored toes!

We were heading to the Stonewall Jackson Hotel in Staunton to celebrate our 5th Anniversary. After leaving Tennyson with my sister, Courtney, on Friday evening we headed to Kyoto Japanese Steakhouse for dinner. It's one of our favorite restaurants, but since it's usually a $50 check we rarely go. So it's a good place to go for special occasions. On the way there I realized I had forgotten the camera, so we figure we'd swing by home on the way to Staunton. We checked in with Courtney after dinner to let her know we had to come back by, and since Tennyson was fussy (due to another tooth and bad diaper rash) we decided to walk around Target and Old Navy until he went to bed.

After picking up the camera we headed to the hotel. We checked in to the hotel and put our bags in our room, and decided to go ahead and exchange gifts. I don't know if it's "kosher" or not to say what we got each other, but Tom's gift was SO thoughtful and sweet that I have to share! Since we honeymooned in Disney World this was just the perfect gift, and I was so thrilled I couldn't stop crying.

Isn't this precious!?

The gift I got for Tom was something I felt was special enough to be an anniversary gift - a Bible. To be more specific, the The American Patriot's Bible. For anyone that knows anything about my husband you know that he is "Mr. History," and the great part is that since he's been out of the Christian bookstore loop he didn't even know this Bible existed! One point for me!

Once we exchanged gifts and cards we decided to go grab some ice cream. Blackfriar's had just finished a performance so getting out of the parking garage was fun, plus there was a wedding reception at the hotel that people were beginning to leave. But we got to Kline's and back to the hotel in no time. We settled in for the night and I had to remark to Tom that it's no wonder we will have 2 kids in 2 years (and almost by our 5th anniversary). We don't have a t.v. in our bedroom and no king-sized bed! Haha!

The next morning we enjoyed a delicious buffet breakfast in the restaurant off the lobby. Then we walked around Staunton for a while, and came upon a little farmer's market downtown. We didn't buy anything, but it was good to get out just the two of us. I have to admit it felt a little strange to not have a diaper bag on my shoulder or a little boy holding on to my finger as we walked. But we know it's good for our marriage, especially on our anniversary, to just be with each other. It was great to be able to talk about whatever we wanted without interruption. And the funny thing was we were still finding out things about each other we didn't know. Is that great or what?!

But as fun as our 17 hours away was it was great to get home and be greeted by a little boy, who came running, wrapped his arms around our necks, and kissed us when we walked in the door. And I only cried a little as I showered him with kisses. ;-) Of course it will be a while before we'll be able to leave overnight again since the baby will be here soon. But it gives us something to look forward to!

Here are a few photos from the downtown area and the hotel:

The lamposts in downtown Staunton

Duckies on parade in a window display
The hotel lobby

A display case in the lobby with Stonewall Jackson artifacts

Artwork outside the Shenandoah Ballroom

The lounge, Sorrels, named after Jackson's horse

What a special time Tom and I had, remembering that beautiful day our life started as husband and wife five years earlier. We are excited to see what God has planned for our marriage in the future!

Tasty Tuesday ~ Honey Chicken Salad

This is a Southern Living recipe and I am telling you it is the BEST chicken salad! I can't tell you how many times I have made this for a gathering and every time someone requests the recipe (including this past weekend when I made it). It's the only chicken salad I ever make!

Honey Chicken Salad

Ingredients:
4 cups chopped cooked chicken
3 celery ribs, diced (about 1 1/2 cups)
1 cup sweetened dried cranberries
1/2 cup chopped pecans, toasted
1 1/2 cups mayonnaise
1/3 cup honey
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon pepper
Garnish: chopped toasted pecans

How to Make It:
1) Combine first 4 ingredients.
2) Whisk together mayonnaise and next 3 ingredients. Add to chicken mixture, stirring gently until combined. Garnish, if desired.

Yield: 6 servings

FIVE Wonderful Years of Marriage!

As I sit here writing this I can't help but become overwhelmed by emotion (not that it takes a lot these days) because I am reminiscing about what happened five years ago today -Tom and I got married. It seems like yesterday and I remember that beautiful day so clearly. We were remarking last night that it was raining, just like it did the night before we got married. But on our wedding day we had p-e-r-f-e-c-t weather!

Even though our marriage relationship has come easily, we have faced many obstacles since becoming husband and wife. But we were blessed to have come through them stronger, closer, and more in love. God has truly blessed us beyond belief. And after (nearly) two babies and five years later we are looking forward to our future with hope and anticipation.

Tonight we are going away.....JUST the two of us! And even though we are a little apprehensive because we've never left Tennyson overnight, we are excited about spending time....alone.....just soaking in each other's love. (Sound cheesy? I don't care!) :-)

Twila Paris is a favorite of ours and this is my favorite verse from "How Beautiful." It still makes me cry every time I hear it because it reminds me of how we were on June 12, 2004, and I know it's how we'll always be - beautifully in love.

How Beautiful the radiant bride

Who waits for her Groom with His light in her eyes

How Beautiful when humble hearts give

The fruit of pure love
So that others may live

How beautiful, how beautiful,

How beautiful is the body of Christ

Thank you for five wonderful, beautiful years together, my love. Words cannot even begin to express just how very much I love you.